Friday, 16 October 2009

Chemistry in Relationships - Understanding How it Changes With Time

If you are in a relationship you may worry about the changes that chemistry in relationships can undergo. Everyone has heard the running jokes told by comedians that when the ring went on the finger, the heat went off in the bedroom. This is simply not the case. Having a loving and committed relationship can lead to better chemistry, hotter sex and deeper intimacy than you could ever believe possible.

Chemistry in relationships is not always easy to maintain. If you work at it though, and keep the lines of communication open you can establish a high level of closeness. Women feel like they can only truly relax and let loose in bed when they are with a committed partner who loves and accepts them. The last thing they want is to let free with someone who is going to judge or criticize them. For women, commitment is the best way to improve chemistry in relationships.

In order to understand your woman's body language you need to know that a woman's body rhythms vary quite a bit from day to day. They may not be aware of how much their hormones and their emotions enter into their attitude towards sex and intimacy at any given moment. Scientists have found out that as a woman gets closer to her fertile period every month, she tends to feel sexier and more attractive. There will be a definite increase in positive chemistry.

If you learn your woman's cycle and start watching her for signs that she is experiencing this increase in sexual feelings, you can often use this time to establish good chemistry with her. There are also a few times when chemistry in relationships can be altered drastically. The most notable of these is during the time immediately after a woman has had a baby.

After a woman has had a baby their mate should anticipate that the chemistry in relationships is naturally going to change. Suddenly a woman's focus may shift and she may be focused on providing for her child. This is natural and normal and a man should not feel threatened by this. In time, as the man continues to support and provide for his woman's emotional and physical needs, there will be a return to the chemistry they had before the baby came along.

In order to have a happy and healthy relationship you should be willing to admit that chemistry in relationships often changes as you go through the different periods and stages in your life together. You should not feel that because the chemistry you share with your partner has changed, that it is not as good as it once was. Different is not necessarily bad.

Chemistry in relationships are like living things in a way. They must be tended and nurtured and if you do this, it can bring you much joy in your life. By working at establishing good chemistry (over and above the natural chemistry that drew you and your partner together) you can form the basis of a wonderful and long lasting relationship.

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Jokes - for Him!

  • A little boy asked his father,"Daddy, how much does it cost to get married?"Father replied, "I don't know son, I'm still paying."

  • A young son asked,"Is it true Dad, that in some parts of Africaa man doesn't know his wife until he marries her?"Dad replied, "That happens in every country, son."

  • Marriage the triumph of imagination over intelligence.

  • If you want your spouse to listen and pay strict attention to every word you say -- talk in your sleep.

  • Just think, if it weren't for marriage, men would go through life thinking they had no faults at all.

  • First guy says, "My wife's an angel!"Second guy remarks, "You're lucky, mine's still alive."

  • Husband and wife are waiting at the bus stop with their nine children. A blind man joins them after a few minutes. When the bus arrives, they find it overloaded and only the wife and the nine kids are able to fit onto the bus. So the husband and the blind man decide to walk. After a while, the husband gets irritated by the ticking of the stick of the blind man as he taps it on the sidewalk, and says to him, "Why don't you put a piece of rubber at the end of your stick? That ticking sound is driving me crazy." The blind man replies, "If you had put a rubber at the end of YOUR stick, we'd be riding the bus, so shut the hell up."

More Jokes - for her!

  • At a cocktail party, one woman said to another, "Aren't you wearing your wedding ring on the wrong finger?""Yes, I am. I married the wrong man."

  • When a woman steals your husband,there is no better revenge than to let her keep him.

  • A woman is incomplete until she is married. Then she is finished ..

  • Then there was a woman who said,"I never knew what real happiness was until I got married, and by then, it was too late."

  • Marriage the triumph of imagination over intelligence.

  • If you want your spouse to listen and pay strict attention to every word you say -- talk in your sleep.

  • "A Woman's Prayer:Dear Lord, I pray for: Wisdom to understand a man, to Love and to forgive him, and for Patience for his moods. Because Lord, if I pray for Strength I'll just beat him to death"

Friday, 2 October 2009

Thursday, 1 October 2009

How to Survive a Break Up

Resentment, jealousy, anger and hurtful emotions are very common after undergoing a recent breakup. It is easy to feel depressed and lonely but instead of making the situation worse, you should try and make yourself feel better. Although easier said than done but it is quite possible to retain your senses and survive a break up.

The is no remedy for a broken heart but below I provide some effective break up advice that will help you when you ask yourself how to survive a breakup.

  • Turn to family and friends for mental support; they can help you get over your breakup pain.

  • Do not plead to get your ex back, you may try to talk about your feelings but do not be pushy about wanting to get back together. This can lead to more problems.

  • Find new hobbies and ways to spend your free time. It is a good idea for you to find something to do which can help you feel good about yourself. I remember when my ex girlfriend split up with me, I ended up going to work in a bar for a few months and it gave my confidence a massive boost!! Plus I got to meet lots of interesting people too!!

  • Do not beat yourself up about past mistakes, understand them and find ways to work on your mistakes so that you can learn from them. This shall help you make your next relationship stronger and better.

  • Meet and socialize with new people. You may meet someone who can help you heal and support you through the entire process.

  • Do not rush into new relationships, take your time to figure out different people and determine what you require from a relationship.

Always remember that there are many things and qualities that make you great and special, do not allow anyone to tell you otherwise. Every grey cloud has a silver lining, so look at this situation as a sign of better things to come and then you will know how to survive a break up.